Actively Seeking Podcasts & Speaking Opportunities

I am a stalking and abuse survivor who speaks candidly, intelligently, and from lived experience. I don’t just trauma dump about what happened to me, I weave stories in about how I survived it, how I stayed grounded while realizing something was very wrong, how I rebuilt safety, reconnected with my intuition, regained clarity, and built self-trust in the aftermath.

I speak about the realistic but hopeful mindset that carried me through prolonged abuse, the practical systems I built to regulate my nervous system under extreme stress, and the steps I took to document abuse in ways that are both impervious to abusers destroying them, and meaningful to law enforcement and legal processes. I share insight on surviving toxic family, work, and friend environments, recognizing manipulation in real time, trusting your gut/intuition, and protecting yourself without losing your faith in humanity. Despite everything I have gone through I still know good people exist, opportunities to trust are around every corner as long as you do so with boundaries, and I know love is within others because it is within me.

I speak to sovereignty and centering yourself, basic and advanced digital safety and privacy, psychological abuse tactics, grooming and predatory behavior, and how manipulators operate so they can be identified early, documented, and avoided without too much drama. My perspective blends lived experience, intense but grounded pattern recognition, and empowered education rather than fear-based narratives that put the power in other people's hands. I urge people to log/track and analyze their triggers, pay attention to their gut instincts, believe their bodies when it is sounding an alarm, and how to discern the difference between general anxiety and your gut/intuition.

I bring warmth, humor, and deep compassion into heavy conversations. I have a laugh that lights up a room, a steady presence that helps people feel seen and safe, and a genuine desire to ensure others don’t have to endure what I did. What I have survived was against the odds... so much so that it has become very clear to me that my role is to share what I’ve learned so others can reclaim clarity, safety, and personal sovereignty sooner and with less suffering. I am writing an Online Security book, as well as a book that fully guides people through their own healing journeys- down the same paths of understanding that I intuitively discovered and healed through.

If you’re interested in inviting me to speak, share, or contribute to a conversation, you can reach me at:
Contact at EscapingStalking dot com